Saturday, February 17, 2007
LoveRecently saw this movie call "Happy Birthday". I like this movie very much and I cry from beginning of the show till ending. This movie was abt 2 lovers name xiao nan and xiao mi. They know each other since university and everyone around them think they will be the 1st couple to get married. But fate seem to play with them. They were together then separate then together then separate or mayb they never really separate. They really love each other but xiao mi has no confidence in relationship at all. She told xiao nan that they remain as gd friends better because lovers might break up one day but gd friends will not break up at all. So because of that, they patch , separate, patch , separate for many times. Xiao nan never give up this relationship at all and he willing to wait for Xiao mi to change her mind. Every year he will sms her to wish her happy birthday. When Xiao mi went Japan to further her studies, Xiao nan will find time to keep Xiao mi father company. He told her dad, no matter how long he will wait for Xiao mi to change her mind and will never give up this relationship. This drag for many yrs and once Xiao nan even ask Xiao mi to leave japan with him and back to HK but she rejected. Finally, Xiao mi came back to HK without finishing her studies. Everybody knows that it because of Xiao nan but she too proud to admit it.One day, she received a sms from him saying he getting married to another gal. Xiao mi was shattered and it was too late to save the relationship. But still he will sms her to wish her happy birthday every yr. The truth is Xiao nan did not married , he had cancer and he did not want Xiao mi to know abt his illness and he dont want her to be sad so he lie to her. Even 4 years later he passed away, he even ask his sis to sms her on his behalf to Xiao mi without letting her know that he had passed away. He wants her to remember him forever and he alway remember her.After watching this movie, I feel very touched and I really envious Xiao mi to have such devoted lover. I respect Xiao nan love and devotion. This is really call true love. He dont mind to wait for Xiao mi for so long, 10 years But I somehow fed up with Xiao mi, if she really love him, why want to separate with him , she dont treasure him at all.I also envious her that she got such a devoted lover. I totally agree with Xiao nan that if you really love a person, you wont mind how long you got to wait for the person. This is call true love.I actually in the same situation as well. The man I love wanted to focus in his career and ask for time out. I was shocked but of cos I do not want that. But like what Xiao nan say, if you really love a person, you would not mind to wait for him no matter how long . It might sound stupid and not worth it, but I think if really love a person, you will tend to do a lot of stupid things to attract his or her attention, right? No matter what the person did to you,you will still forgive him or her.It just a matter of time. But if already make up mind to wait for the person, then must have no regret at all. For what I think is worth to wait ..
For you <3 11:01 PM
